WHERE DO YOU TURN WHEN IT’S over?

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  • 2 X 15 MIN HYPNOSIS CONDITIONING SESSIONS

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Dealing with separation and divorce is one of the most painful life events you’ll face. The end of a long relationship can manifest itself as grief and loss, particularly if it happens suddenly.

Feelings and emotions - anger, disappointment, betrayal, confusion, fear for the future - can overwhelm you.

young frustrated couple on couch

Whether you’re the instigator, the unwilling victim, or somewhere in between, it’s important that you manage your words, feelings, and actions carefully so that you can pick your way through the minefield and emerge safe and strong on the other side, towards your new life.

This program has been created to support and guide you through the decisions you make and how to identify and enact your true priorities, even when emotions are running high.

CHOOSE THE RIGHT PATH

There are two distinct paths you can follow.

The first is to fight, initially against the whole thing, and then, once acceptance takes root, fight against every single step in the process. The lawyers love people like you, because you’ll be keeping them well supplied with instructions to write letters, contest claims, and generally run a proxy war on your behalf.

And they’ll keep you well supplied with bills and invoices.

You use your anger and adrenaline to distract you from dealing with the hurt.

indecisive couple in frosty encounter

You will (eventually) emerge from the never-ending battles and emotional disruptions. You’ll be exhausted, you’ll be poorer, your other relationships will be strained, and you’ll have acquired a bitter enemy for life.

And you then have to pick yourself up and move on with a life that you simply haven’t allowed yourself time to plan.

However, there is another way…

This is how you get through it with the least possible disruption, keeping your dignity and self-esteem throughout, and earning the long-term respect of family, friends, and even your ex-partner, by demonstrating that you are determined to conduct yourself with dignity and respect.

It isn’t easy, and you’re going to have to learn to bite your lip and hold your nose every day. This program will equip you with the tools to enable you to see past the emotional flare-ups, keeping your eye on your destination and paying close attention to the most diplomatic and compassionate route through the maze.

headphone girl relaxing on sofa with a green cushion

By choosing this path, accepting the inevitable compromises early in the process, and staying cool and connected throughout, you’ll emerge quicker, stronger, and with a clear conscience, free of the constraints that have been holding you back, and ready to push on towards your full potential.

Ask yourself now, wouldn’t you rather take that route?

FIVE FULL-LENGTH SESSIONS

This hypnosis program deals with five key areas in which your control over your behaviour and your resistance to emotional misdirection are key to your safe passage.

Session 1 - ‘COMING TO TERMS’ focuses on the here and now, in particular the anger and confusion you may be feeling about what is happening to you, perhaps the frustration you feel with an unengaged partner who has forced you to this point, and the tools to acknowledge and deal with this most damaging threat to your successful outcome.

Acceptance is never easy, but you can’t start to heal until you do.

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Session 2 - ‘CALM UNDER FIRE’ concentrates on control. Whatever your situation, it can only be improved by exerting your will, in a subtle and considerate way, to steer the process the way you want it to go. You’ll acquire tools that will help you to think ahead and anticipate flash-points and obstacles before they occur, and a simple system of Think – Plan – Act which you’ll follow to make sure you don’t revert to impulsive or destructive behaviour.

No matter how hard you’re pushed.

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Session 3 - ‘NO GOING BACK’ is designed to strengthen your resolve and keep you safe from the inevitable temptation to accept a sub-optimal compromise and call the whole thing off. There may be some tough challenges ahead, and moments of weakness where you’d settle for what you had in order to make the whole thing stop. Examine those feelings and the flawed logic inside, and learn how to dismiss them.

They’re false signals that can only lead you back to a place you’re trying to leave.

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Session 4 - ‘EMOTIONAL RESCUE’ deals with probably the most challenging aspect of any break-up, and that’s coping with your own internal feelings. In the earlier sessions you acquired the practical tools to maintain your equilibrium and stay calm and controlled. In this session, you’ll learn the important techniques to challenge your own emotions and bring them under your control, for as long as you need to.

You only cry in private.

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Session 5 - ‘MOVING ON’ sets you up for life after all this is over, and equips you with the skills to look past your present challenges and relish the freedom and new choices that you’ll be empowered to make. Here, you’ll be re-introduced to a skillset you’ve been suppressing, learning how to look farther and wider for the things you need in the life you want.

There’s no need to feel apprehensive about the future. Anticipation uses exactly the same muscles!

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The hypnosis sessions have been designed to be re-used often. Sometimes you’ll get stuck in a difficult spot for a little while, and you’ll benefit from the clarity of thought and direction that repeating one of these sessions will bring.

exhilarated woman in sunglasses

Your objective is to get through this storm in the best shape possible, and that means sticking to a plan.

So before you call a lawyer, and commit yourself to an long, expensive, emotionally damaging confrontation, why not take a step back, get some perspective, and diffuse and de-escalate your situation so that you can navigate through it with dignity, poise, and purpose?


LET HYPNOSIS GUIDE YOU TO BRIGHTER TIMES

Rick Smith HPD DHyp Certified Clinical Hypnotherapist

Rick Smith HPD DHyp
Certified Clinical Hypnotherapist

As with all my hypnosis programs, these sessions will work better and faster if you’re confident going in and out of trance. If you’ve tried hypnosis or hypnotherapy in the past, and feel that it worked for you, you should be fine. If this is your first time, I recommend you complete my two short training and conditioning recordings before you begin the main program.

Hypnosis is progressive, and the more often you do it, the faster, smoother, and deeper it becomes. By conditioning yourself with the training recordings, you’ll find the therapeutic effects of the main recordings will be many times more successful.

All you have to do is relax!


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EMBRACE YOUR SOLO LIFESTYLE

  • 3 FULL-LENGTH HYPNOTHERAPY SESSIONS

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If you’re now living alone, or going solo is on your horizon, this program is for you.

It doesn’t matter whether you chose the solo life, or it’s happened as a result of events or circumstances. There are so many different reasons why you may find yourself in this unfamiliar situation. Everyone’s story is unique to them.

What unites us with our fellow lone-travellers is a strong desire to make the very best of what life can offer us as individuals, because we’re more individual now than maybe we were before.

You’re ready to move on, but you need a little push: not to forget where you came from, but nevertheless to acknowledge things as they are now, and discover a positive way forwards.

The program’s objective is to awaken you to the freedom of choice, clarity of thought, and the wealth of opportunities that embracing a solo lifestyle brings. Your desire for happiness and success put you at the heart of your own universe: everything now revolves around you.


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fix shyness and social anxiety

  • 3 X FULL-LENGTH HYPNOTHERAPY SESSIONS

  • 2 X HYPNOSIS CONDITIONING SESSIONS

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Another invitation, another surge of nervous, anxious feelings. New people to meet, unfamiliar surroundings, people looking at you, maybe judging you. You hate it already. Your first thought; 'How do I get myself out of this?'

Maybe you even find yourself lying, to avoid going in the first place. Or do you drag yourself along, already planning your escape route? You wish you didn't feel this way, but you don't know how to change. You feel helpless as you watch life passing you by.

Maybe you're looking for new friends or relationships, but you're overthinking every opportunity and worrying about how you'll look, sound, or act when you're one-on-one with someone new?

Whatever you've tried hasn't worked, so you're looking for something different.

The good news is that all you've acquired is a bunch of old habits that you can happily live without. And old habits can be easily changed for new ones, using hypnosis.

Once you recognise what's happening, it's not that difficult to adapt your response, learning to separate your thoughts and feelings when social anxiety approaches, and use new tools and secret weapons to switch off your emotional response before it becomes a problem.

You'll remain cool and calm, with clear thinking and good decisions in the face of your social challenges, and navigate yourself, and those around you, through those situations.

With practice and repetition, your new approach quickly becomes automatic behaviour. Old fears and concerns - and your famously effective avoidance tactics - no longer have any value. You'll have flushed them out of your system and replaced them with better, easier, more pleasant ways of interacting with the world.


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HOW’S DATING WORKING OUT FOR YOU?

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There have never been more ways to meet new people, so shouldn’t it be more fun?

You already know that first dates can be highly pressurised, and if one or two don’t work out, you start questioning where you’re going wrong. There’s nothing more disappointing than meeting someone you really like, only to have them disappear at the end of the date, never to be seen again.

Maybe you over-analyse and ruminate over your performance? Perhaps you start to lose confidence, and wonder if it’s all worth it? And in the end, do you tie yourself up in knots each time you go on a first or second date, worried that you’ll fail again and still be on your own tomorrow?

This 3-Part Hypnotherapy Program addresses the three key factors which determine the success or failure of a first date:

  • Content

  • Communication

  • Compatibility

When you learn and practice these skills and techniques, you leave nothing to chance. You remove any and all elements of anxiety and chaos from your first date, because you are now meticulously organised and rehearsed, and you have a system to work by which will always present you at your best.

How would that feel?


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